When we allow our EX to pull our strings… we lose Judd Nelson

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There are many reactions to a break up however the most common thing women do is kick their physical appearance up a notch.  One of the first things they do is join a gym.  Yes, when one works out the endorphins make us feel better.  Many say they...

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Check out my book preview!

Tricia Maxx Ebook

This book is for people with flaws who want to know how a flawed person finds love.  No one is perfect so maybe the perfect “how to” dating books...

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Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful, smart, and single…

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Almost 90% of the people I know are divorced, going through a divorce, getting divorced again, or wishing they were divorced.  I may be 39 years old and never...

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Protected: Love your money

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Will boys be boys? Cougar Life.

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Is age just a number?  If grown men who are old enough to have lots of life experience behave the same way the typical 25 year old, why not...

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This New Years Eve

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How will you ring in the New Year?  Will you bring it in by kissing your loved one, someone you just met, or someone you don’t know but will...

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BUSTED! Cheater…

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True story and by far one of the funniest I’ve ever heard, it should be one of the main scenes in a romantic comedy: My friend Polly fell for...

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How I make it being Single during the holidays…

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The holidays can be very depressing for some who are single.  Even though some of us have the opportunity to spend the holidays with family or loved ones some...

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Are women really clueless?

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Are women clueless? I’m not talking about clueless in the sense of not knowing how to change our own oil; I’m speaking in terms of knowing who we are....

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Types of men…

From: Not your typical mail order bride.

 

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Online dating site Reviews…(which sites bomb)

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These are just my opinions and experiences with these online dating sites.  The results may be different for everyone. Free dating sites. Zoosk-  “I wish I had 2 more...

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Are All Men Idiots?

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If you listen to some of the politicians it’s easy to believe they’re complete idiots. (I’ll get to Michelle Bachman types in another blog.)  It’s easy to focus on...

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Did you think wrong? Survey says!

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I was recently asked what makes me tick when it comes to dating and why.  If you know anything about me (if you have read my blogs or paid...

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Will the real drama queen please stand up?

GRAPHIC Drama queen ahead

Who are the ones who really “love the drama?”.  Those who flip out and call people out when a shady, or concealed situation has been uncovered OR those who...

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Cheater Red Flags

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Do we really care why men cheat?  Shouldn’t their failure to stay committed, choices to lie, and deep seeded issues with women be something they need to work out...

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I “believe” I want a divorce. (The Sanctity of Marriage)

I “believe” I want a divorce. (The Sanctity of Marriage)

I believe that one of the most important factors that will determine whether or not a relationship will fail is the influence of “God.”  Two people can have every...

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Interracial dating…

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I have never strictly dated  inside my race and if that was my rule, being of mixed race I’d be limited.  I have to admit that even though it...

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Wastin away again in Cheaterville

Personally, I would never appear on “Cheaterville Court” simply because,  I bust cheaters just as soon as they begin and I leave them before I’d even have a chance...

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Online dating- what he’s saying

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More and more people are using online dating as a way to meet people these days.  I’ve been using this method to meet potential matches since it first launched...

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What do I REALLY think about Steve Santagati?

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“What did you really think about that Steve guy?” Since the Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers “Un-cheatable” episode re-aired more people are asking how I feel about Steve Santagati.  “Was it...

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Do I think emailing an EX on Facebook is cheating?

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There have been times when I’ve searched for my exes on Facebook just to see how they were doing.  I wanted to see if they were married now; if...

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Thanks to my exes…

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Whether we like it or not we all learn something from our exes, even the worst ones.  I don’t think it’s healthy to make a new love interest pay...

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Ignore your friends, listen to your gut!

Most of the time our friends have good intentions when it comes to advice; but sometimes they want to live vicariously, or project the way they feel about the...

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What to do with liars

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Everyone lies to some extent.   For instance, we’re just running late for work because we overslept but we tell our boss it’s because of heavy traffic.  What about when...

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Your Ex and Facebook

Your Ex and Facebook

Is it creepy for exes of whom you are dating to contact you on Facebook?  I recently conducted a survey of men and women who had been contacted or...

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Re-air January 6th! My segment of “Uncheatable” on Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers-

Re-air January 6th!  My segment of “Uncheatable” on Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers-

I recently appeared on Dr. Drew’s new show, Lifechangers.  The experience was interesting and entertaining to say the very least.  Everyone from security checked in, wardrobe, make up, the...

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What men say about cleavage

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A man recently told me that I should show cleavage because it’s sexy.  A different man said I was sexy because I am articulate, confident, and intelligent.    Another man...

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Cheater- plain old cheater.

"I would never cheat on you"

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Watch me on Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers Sept 28th at 3pm!

Watch me on Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers Sept 28th at 3pm!

  If you have been cheated on or know a cheater this is the show you will not want to miss. See me along side Steve Santagati, and Simone...

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